TW/CW: No numbers in this post, but discussion of disordered eating and the weight loss industry. 

Continue reading Knitting as radical, body-positive, self love

I’m not just talking about those of us who earn all or part of our income through creative outlets, I’m talking about all of us. Do you painstakingly choose colors for a new project? That’s creative. Do you spend hours cutting out tiny little shapes for papercraft? CREATIVE, AND A BIT MAD. Fancy bullet journal? Creative. And so on. I’m talking to all of us.
Studies have shown that creative folks tend to be more empathetic, which means some of us are highly emotionally influenced by our surroundings. In today’s current sociopolitical climate, that’s not easy. We’re bombarded from the first moment we blearily look at our phones in the morning, until we (finally) drift off at night (if we manage to do that at all.).

Continue reading We’re creative, we’re badass, we need a F*****g break.

Sometimes, we have a week where everything goes wrong. Everything that can happen, does, and we’re left to the mercy of the decidedly unmerciful universe.  From unexpected expenses to family crisis, problems large and small don’t hesitate to mount up in spite of our best efforts.
And sometimes, our threshold for being able to deal with life is lowered due to lack of sleep and and unending stream of the everyday crap that wears us down over a period of weeks or months. We’re left feeling like a husk, a mere shadow of our vibrant, capable selves.

Continue reading Crafting as therapy, when everything feels like Too Much

I realized as I was packing up orders this morning that I was missing a bunch of skeins in varying shades. I ransacked the shop stash – nowhere to be found. I checked the car, my personal stash, and nothing. After some detective work checking over the last stock take I did, it’s become clear they were stolen from the last event we were at. (Yes, I realized that I should have taken a better inventory after the last event – when several events are clustered together, things can get missed when you’re the only one running a business.)

Continue reading Stealing from a small business? You’re literally the worst.

I started off the week in a foul, toxic mood. We’d had a stressful couple of weeks, I had a pile of invoices to pay, and we’re facing a big move, immigration battles, and the normal day to day stuff like, “Are we really having spaghetti AGAIN because we forgot to get XYZ at the grocery store?!”
I know myself well enough to know that when I start on the toxic spiral staircase of doom (the kind where you go round and round in your brain and never get anywhere), I need to get off my pity party train, and FAST – before I succumb to stomping around the apartment and picking fights with my lovely wife while I devour every carb within a 10 mile radius and moan about everything that’s ever gone wrong in my life.

Continue reading Getting your yarn wishes granted

Another month, another awesome, excellent, exciting yarn event! I had the month of October off from yarn shows to create new yarns and kits, and to make sure I had enough time to stir my cauldron and wear my tall, pointy hat. (Kidding. Mostly.)

Continue reading Are you coming to Nottingham Yarn Expo?

Most people know that there’s one cardinal rule of existing on the internet:

DON’T. READ. THE COMMENTS.

There’s nothing funny or cute about the ridiculously abusive garbage people spew in the comments, and it seems like it’s only getting worse. Most people who have written anything on the internet anywhere have been exposed to vitriol in the comments section, whether it’s a post on your personal Facebook page, a blog post, or a YouTube video. When did we all collectively forget that there are PEOPLE on the other end of the screen? Things we say have an effect on the people who read them, and yet the presence of bots and trolls seems to be increasing on almost every platform.
But what about the comments that aren’t from bots or trolls?
Here’s a story about my first interaction with negative comments:
Once upon a time, I wrote two articles a month for an online sheet music store. Most of these articles were in the “Buzzfeed style,” quick facts or thoughts that are easily digestible for readers on the go. I wrote an article about conductors who were known to be, let’s say, less than amicable to the musicians in their ensembles. Some would physically abuse their players, but even more used manipulation and aggressive verbal abuse to achieve their goals.
That night, I got a message from my editor: “Angie, have you seen the comments? Maybe don’t look, if you haven’t seen them.”
Of course, being a glutton for punishment, I went and looked. Here’s a few examples of the comments on my silly article:
“What does this bitch even know? She went to a state school.”
“Ugh, seriously? These men were geniuses, who cares how they behaved? Fuc**ing snowflake.”
Those are just some highlights. It definitely means that I rethink every article before I post it, and I’ve shied away from posting more incendiary thoughts, even if most people would think they were fairly benign.

Here’s another story:
About 18 months ago, I posted my very first crafting tutorial. I made it, in my house, without assistance, lighting, or proper tripods. I’ve since learned a lot more about creating videos, filming, and have gotten some decent equipment. It’s been a steep learning curve, but an exciting one! I provided the tutorial as a helpful assistance for my free rainbow granny square pattern. I spent a day filming and editing a free resource to try and help people. For free.
And yet, every single comment I’ve ever gotten on the video has been negative.
“Bad angles”
“terrible”
“awful, can’t see anything”
“music sucks”
That last one hurt the most, because I write all the music that ends up in videos I make (with the exception of videos that borrow theme music from shows and games).
I’ve hidden most of the comments, but I still get a few negative comments each week. In the beginning, I would respond to each person apologizing for the poor quality and explaining what I planned to do in the future. I never once got a response. It seems like people are happier to leave a negative comment and never look back.
A final story:
About 6 months ago, I simultaneously got messages on every GamerCrafting platform: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Etsy, and here on the blog. The messages were all from the same person, about the same issue. She was very, very angry that she bought a pattern from me that had errors in it. She threatened to report me for fraud (which doesn’t make much sense), she threatened to complain about me to Ravelry, she said she would tell everyone how terrible I am. I immediately responded, offering assistance and asking which pattern she was having trouble with. She responded that she had purchased a (redacted) pattern from me.
I then responded that I don’t have any patterns like that, but I’d still help her if she needed it.
She never responded.
These interactions are becoming all too commonplace on the internet today, and I say, ENOUGH. (I know I’m preaching to the choir here as my followers are some of the nicest, warmest people ever!) I’m tired of all the overt hostility, especially against people who create content (blog posts, patterns, videos, music, etc) FOR FREE. For you to enjoy! For Free!
Here’s a task: leave 10 nice comments on content you enjoy this week. Just tell them you liked it. Those comments go a long way, I promise.
 

I’m neck deep in yarn show preparations, and as a yarn show newbie I’m forever discovering new things that I haven’t considered before. I’ve done small community craft shows before, but next month heralds my first “big yarn shows” and to be honest, I’m equal parts terrified, excited, and stressed. I’m like a Venn Diagram of emotions, or a pie chart of negativity and anxiety. If I were a visual representation, I would look like this:

Here are some things you have to consider when preparing for a yarn show, especially for the first time:

Labels!

Anyone who has received an order in the past few weeks will have noticed the EXCITING NEW TAGS that now grace the yarns, with a new logo designed by my other half. Did you know that tags are actually quite expensive?!

Payment!

Aside from getting a chunk of small bills for change from the bank, it’s also important to figure out a way to take card payments. Some people use the PayPal card reader, or the Square Reader, I got an iZettle and so far, it works. Let’s just hope it continues to work, right? (This is another thing that costs money; not only is the little machine a cost, they also take 2.5% of every sale.)

Stand displays!

Here’s a confession: I still have no idea how I’m going to tackle this, and I’m 4 weeks away from the Perth Festival of Yarn. Those big grids are not only expensive, and heavy, but LARGE and probably won’t fit in our small eco-friendly car or in fact, our apartment for all the time we AREN’T at shows. Storage is at a premium around here, so it’s likely that my display will be slightly…more rustic. Stay tuned.

Stock!

It’s one thing to have stock for online orders, and it’s another thing entirely to build up enough stock for a large show over a weekend, especially when you have no idea how much you’re going to sell. So if you come by on day two of Yarndale and I’m standing amidst empty boxes, you’ll know I made a crucial error in calculations (that probably won’t happen, I hope). But buying extra raw materials is, again, another cost.

Kits, patterns, printed stuff!

Leaflets with information, patterns on paper to purchase, kits with patterns, bags, business cards, flyers, it’s all stuff to get ordered and hopefully delivered before we get into the car.

Accommodation!

You mean we can’t just sleep in the car and wake up fresh as a daisy? No?

Probably a billion other things:

I have so many lists right now. Lists for my lists for my lists. A billion notebooks with half-legible writing that are probably important things that I won’t be able to read when it comes time to think about finishing up these plans. At this point I won’t be surprised if all the yarns make it, but I forgot to pack MYSELF.

ANYWAYS!!! Come see me at the Perth Festival of Yarn on September 10th, and at Yarndale in Skipton from September 23-24!